Nollywood actress Nkechi Blessing Sunday has responded to online critics after a video from Obi Cubana’s 50th birthday party sparked debates about her appearance. The clip, shared by media personality Daddy Freeze, showed the actress in a more natural state, differing from her usual glamorous, filtered social media posts.  

While some commenters pointed out the contrast, Nkechi took to her platform to firmly address the backlash, asserting her right to control her online image. In a defiant post, she made it clear that she has no intention of conforming to public expectations regarding her appearance.  

"I Control My Narrative" – Nkechi’s Unapologetic Stance

In her response, the actress emphasized that her social media presence is entirely her choice, including the use of filters and curated content. She dismissed concerns about how she appears in videos or photos taken by others, stating that such opinions are irrelevant to her.  

"I control my narrative. If I use filters on my page, that’s my choice. How I appear on someone else’s camera isn’t my business," she wrote.  

She went further, humorously brushing off critics by adding, "How you see me on other people’s pages is solely your business, your father’s business, your mother’s business, your whole generation’s business. On my own page, I will post how I want you to see me. And another thing, you see my filter? I will never stop using it."

The Double Standards of Celebrity Appearances  

The incident highlights the ongoing scrutiny female celebrities face regarding their looks, particularly in an era where social media often blurs the line between reality and curated perfection. Many fans rallied behind Nkechi, supporting her right to present herself however she chooses.  

Others, however, questioned the pressure on public figures to maintain a flawless image, noting that unfiltered moments shouldn’t be a cause for criticism.  

A Growing Trend of Celebrities Pushing Back  

Nkechi’s response aligns with a broader trend of celebrities rejecting unrealistic beauty standards and defending their autonomy over their online personas. Similar debates have surrounded other stars who have faced backlash for unfiltered photos or videos, only to clap back at the negativity.  

As the conversation continues, Nkechi Blessing Sunday’s message remains clear: she owns her image, and critics’ opinions won’t dictate how she presents herself—filtered or not.  

What are your thoughts? Should celebrities be held to unrealistic beauty standards, or is it fair for them to control their own narratives? Let us know in the comments.